Tenacity and Tape
An executive coach asked me about two months ago to ponder and pray over this question: What am I protecting, or who am I protecting by not sharing my story? Me - this whole time, I have been trying to find a way to protect myself. I was protecting both women and young "girl" me. I had created an idealized image of myself in my mind over time, and other people supported that image. A hurting and insecure woman buried it deep down until I forgot it was all there. She was a young, tender girl who had been told one too many times she was not enough. That's what and who I was protecting, Tiffany, by not telling my story. The goal? Remain the woman who seemingly has it all together. From the outside looking in, you would have thought I had the whole thing together. But my entire life was held together with masking tape. All of the pieces of my life jumbled together and held together with my tenacity and tape. Then it all began to slip away in 2019 - well, maybe a bit bef